Why we need to slow down and listen: building a community to share and learn from life stories

Where stories and life lessons meet

At 40, I decided to shake things up. I moved to a new country, learned a new language, earned a master’s degree, and raised three boys while building a career as a nonprofit consultant.

But while my path shaped me, The Inner Lens is about the stories that shape us all. These stories can help you grow, face your fears, and better understand life.

In a world of distractions, genuinely listening to one another helps us feel seen, build stronger connections, and grow emotionally and intellectually. We often rush, skimming conversations without hearing what others are saying. But when we slow down and really listen, we connect, learn, and grow. 

That’s why I’m starting Life Stories Circle—a place where we can share stories, pick up some life lessons, and help each other along the way —a community where you find listeners and, who knows, even learn to write your stories.

A bit about me: with a background in International Relations, Peace Studies, and a Master's in Genocide Studies, my passion lies in understanding human behaviour, especially in tough times. But theory is just one part of my journey.

I've also been in the trenches, running a successful real estate business while raising three boys. Today, I work with grassroots nonprofits, helping them make an impact in their communities.

I’m here to share what I’ve picked up along the way.

What to expect: In Life Stories Circle, you’ll get personal stories, stories about others, and practical insights. I’ll share tools grounded in social psychology—strategies to define aspirations, motivate and make decisions for change, and better control your life.

If this topic strikes a chord, consider joining Life Stories Circle to support more content like this and gain access to my upcoming mini-series rooted in social psychology.

Stories deserve more than a quick scroll. They’re meant to be heard, shared, and unpacked. This is more than a newsletter - it’s a community.

Here’s What You’ll Get:

• Monthly Zoom Calls: We’ll reflect on the best story of the month and explore its lessons. More importantly, this is a space for your stories—those proud moments, those challenges you’ve faced, and those lessons you’ve learned. Who knows? Your story might help someone else.

• Community Chat: A private space where we can connect, support each other, and share ideas.

• Full Article Access: Starting February 10th, articles will be free for two weeks before moving to the paid tier (sent weekly on Wednesdays).

• Mini-Courses: Think self-awareness, confidence, and emotional resilience—all taught through practical, proven methods rooted in social psychology.

• Founding Members’ Perk: A 10-Minute Self-Awareness Journal, sent monthly for a year to help you reflect and grow.

If this feels like something you’ve been looking for, I’d love for you to join me. But whether you’re ready to subscribe or not, I want you to know this:

Your story matters.